In today’s class of الرفق واللين , i understood the concept of gentleness is very vast and covers almost every aspect of life. We usually think the gentle is the one who speaks gently. Gentleness and عجل are inversely proportional. Gentleness and patience are interconnected. And gentleness and hikmah are interconnected.
A person is considered gentle when his or her affairs are properly planned with wisdom. (H)She has given proper time to grip the task and knows how to perform the task. There is hikmah in the processes of the task.
We claim to be gentle but what we actually do whenever there is some work or task, we jump into the task without planning step by step. For example our day to day routine, most of us just jump into the day and go with the flow whatever come at front we start doing it. We do not plan our days properly. How much time for home, how much for Dawah, some days are wasted because of our mood swings, laziness.